5 Ways to Show Your Friends Love Based on Their Love Language

Love language is typically based on the relationships between couples, which is important for understanding how to express love in a way that resonates with your partner. However, it is important to note that love language can also be applicable to friendships. The love language you use with your friends may not be the same as the one you use with your partner, but it is still important to understand what makes your friends feel appreciated and loved.

This can include spending quality time with them, giving thoughtful gifts, using words of affirmation, performing acts of service, or offering physical touch. Whatever your friends' love languages may be, it is important to make an effort to communicate with them in a way that strengthens your bond and fosters a deeper sense of connection and understanding.

1. Words of Affirmation

Some people feel loved when they receive verbal assurance, so it's important to tell them how much you appreciate them from time to time.

Here are some ideas of what you can say:

    • "I watched this movie and thought of you. You are very kind, like the protagonist."
    • "I feel incredibly fortunate to have you in my life."
    • "You motivate me when times get tough. I'll always be thankful to you."
    • "I love spending time with you. Even an hour spent with you feels like a second."
    • "You never need to justify yourself to me. I already know who you are, and I trust you."

2. Quality time

Some friends feel loved when you spend dedicated time together. According to Gary Chapman, Ph.D, for people whose love language is quality time, "nothing says 'I love you' like full, undivided attention from those you love.”

When spending quality time with your friends, there are many things you can do together to make the most of your time. The most important factor is to be fully present and engaged in the activity, giving your friends your undivided attention.

3. Physical touch

Some friends feel more loved and connected when they are physically close. One way to express this closeness is by sitting beside them, giving them a pat on the back, or plenty of hugs.

Simply sitting beside them can make them feel that you both share a deep connection and that you really like them.

Surprisingly, hugs can actually release oxytocin, a hormone that helps us feel happy, calm, and bonded with others. So don't hesitate to hug these friends more often.

4. Acts of service

For those who appreciate acts of service, there are various things that you can do to show them that you care.

    • Clean their house without being asked to do so.
    • Get their car washed and filled with gas.
    • Make them a cup of coffee first thing in the morning.
    • Prepare some lunch or dinner for them, either by packing it or cooking it.

If they are going through a difficult time, check in on them frequently or offering to help them with any tasks that may be overwhelming. Small gestures can go a long way in making them feel loved and appreciated.


5. Receiving gifts

As the saying goes, "The gesture of receiving a gift demonstrates that you are seen, cared for, and valued." This is how people who appreciate gifts feel loved.

So why not be like Santa and occasionally surprise your friends with small gifts? It can be anything they love, from small packets of snacks to more valuable items like watches.

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By NATbyJ - www.natbyj.com

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