Choosing between gold and silver jewelry can feel surprisingly tricky. One day you’re drawn to warm, golden tones… the next, sleek silver just feels right. If you’ve ever wondered “Which one actually suits me better?”
Well, you’re definitely not alone!
The truth is...both can look amazing. It just comes down to your skin tone, personal style, and how you like to wear your pieces.
Start with your skin tone
An easy way to figure out your undertone is by looking at the veins on your wrist in natural light.
Greenish veins -> Warm undertones
If your veins look greener, you likely have warm undertones. Gold jewelry tends to complement your skin really well, bringing out a natural glow.
Bluish veins -> Cool undertones
If your veins appear blue or slightly purple, you probably have cool undertones. Silver jewelry usually looks more flattering and sharper on your skin. Like this NATbyJ Silver-tone Necklace from the Stargaze collection:
A mix of both, maybe?
If you see a mix of green and blue, you’re likely neutral. That means you can pull off both gold and silver! And even mix them without it looking out of place.
Think about what you wear daily
Your wardrobe actually says a lot about which metal works better for you.
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If you wear a lot of black, white, or cool tones → silver fits right in
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If you lean towards beige, brown, or warmer shades → gold blends more naturally
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If your style changes often → having both gives you more flexibility
Jewelry should feel easy to pair with your outfits, not something you have to overthink.
Pay Attention to What You Already Reach For
Sometimes, you’ve already made your choice without realizing it.
Look at your current pieces:
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Which ones do you wear the most?
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What do you instinctively pick when you’re in a rush?
That’s usually a good indicator of what suits you best.
You Don’t Have to Choose Just One
Mixing gold and silver is a lot more common now and when done right, it looks intentional and stylish.
The trick is to keep it balanced. Layering similar styles or repeating both tones across your look helps tie everything together.
So...Gold or Silver?
There’s no one “correct” answer.
Use your wrist veins as a quick guide, your wardrobe as a reference, and your personal preference as the final call. At the end of the day, the best jewelry is the kind you’ll actually enjoy wearing - whether that’s gold, silver, or a mix of both.
And no matter what you end up choosing, NATbyJ has you covered—whether you're into gold, silver, or even a little rose gold if that’s more your vibe. It’s all about building a collection that feels like you, so get them here!

